Venus in Aries Woman: Power, Love, Relationship & Compatibility

If you’re a Venus in Aries woman looking to understand what the heck that means, you’re right where you need to be.

And if you’re a man dating a Venus in Aries woman, you’re going to want to read this so you know what she wants from you.

This article contains the secret heart of the Aries Venus woman.

What she craves, what she needs and how she operates in a relationship.

I’m covering a lot, so grab a drink, grab a snack and settle in.

You’re going to learn:

  • What it means to be a Venus in Aries
  • What makes Venus in Aries women powerful
  • The personality traits Venus in Aries women have in common
  • How they approach love and relationships
  • What they find attractive
  • Venus in Aries style
  • How famous Venus in Aries ladies are slaying out there in the world and what we can learn from that
  • Compatibility with other Venus signs

What Venus in Aries Means, and Why It Matters

Woman standing on a rock at the beach with a quote about how an Aries Venus woman goes after what she wants

Venus is known as the planet of relationships. 

This is because at its core, Venus is relational—it’s about connection. Union. Rapport.

Venus is about how we relate to our partners, our friends and society.

How we relate to gender roles and norms.

Our aesthetics and personal style.

It’s what we want, what we like and what we’re drawn to in our partners and environments.

Aries is an initiator.

It puts desire into action.

It goes after what it wants. It takes charge of the situation.

And it does it without asking.

It doesn’t care to bend others to its will—it simply doesn’t care when anyone tells it “no.”

If you’re a woman, this is crucial because so often women are told to ask nicely while males are often encouraged to seize on opportunities. To strike when the iron’s hot.

To conquer.

Well, Aries Venus is doing the conquering today. And it doesn’t care if you’re a man or a woman.

Why care about all this?

Because it can empower you in your relationships.

It can empower you to step into who you are and embrace what it is you’re truly drawn to.

Especially if it conflicts with the expectations placed upon you, whether by society or by yourself.

Venus in Aries is neither good nor bad. I firmly believe this.

It has its strengths and weaknesses, as we’ll explore throughout this article.

But now let’s look at why some people are afraid of Venus in Aries, which has to do with an astrological concept of a planet being in its detriment in certain signs.

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Venus in Detriment

Venus in Aries is a Venus in detriment, which means that Venus has a hard time being here.

Venus is supposed to be soft and cuddly and gentle and harmonious with others and with its environment—or at least, that’s what we expect.

Aries is loud and brash and rough.

This is why Venus in Aries women find that they’re often at odds with others in their relationships and within society.

Aries Venus is constantly bumping into society’s standards and others’ expectations of them.

The Aries Venus attracts this experience because that’s what Venus does. It attracts.

And it can make Venus in Aries women feel quite awkward at times.

It’s not that Venus in Aries women don’t want to be loved.

To be seen as cuddlable and feminine and beautiful. 

It’s just, Aries isn’t demure.

Aries is thunderous, assertive and sometimes savage.

It may not feel like the Greek Aphrodite, but it sure feels very Ishtar, the battle-hardened Mesopotamian goddess of love, female sexuality and war (who, by the way, came first).

Ishtar is not as gentle and ladylike as Aphrodite.

But nature is full of examples of females not being “ladylike.” 

Look at praying mantises—the females literally bite their mates’ heads off mid-coitus.

This is not a reflection of Venus in Aries behavior, but rather an example of the variation that exists within nature.

You see, a Venus in Aries woman feels no less “feminine” than a Venus in Taurus woman.

She just doesn’t care what’s socially acceptable.

The world tries to force her into a box.

So she turns it upside-down.

The Power of Venus in Aries

Confident looking woman with a quote that says the power of a Venus in Aries woman lies in self acceptance

Venus in Aries women are often likened to Amazon women.

Those warrior women riding into battle on horseback, leading the strike on their enemies.

And while this is a perfectly fitting image, it’s not the whole story.

The power of Venus in Aries doesn’t lie in fighting, or even in your ability to defend yourself.

No, its power is about change.

It’s about being a catalyst for change.

For revolution.

Lady Gaga has her Venus in Aries. Remember the meat suit?

I don’t get vibes that Lady Gaga doesn’t want to be seen as beautiful.

I see her avant garde style as a message:

“This is who I am today. Love it. Love me.”

Lady Gaga is an icon not because she wears provocative clothes.

It’s because through her radical self-expression, through her own brand of femininity, she challenges the status quo. 

And we absolutely adore her for it.

Venus in Aries women start revolutions because, like I said, they don’t ask.

They don’t kowtow because they don’t know how. 

And I don’t want to make it seem like Venus in Aries is just about having some kind of rule-breaking style.

A Venus in Aries woman is just as likely to start a revolution in women’s sports or the punk music scene as on the cover of Vogue.

Being a woman with your Venus in Aries is about radical self-acceptance.

You put it all out there, forcefully but thrillingly, for others to contend with.

And if that makes them uncomfortable, well, that’s not your problem.

That’s why, underneath it all, Venus in Aries is really about the power of self-love.

Because only true self-love and acceptance moves us to reject the existing conditions that box us in.

Champion of the Underdog

Not to fangirl over Lady Gaga or anything, but I also want to point out the way she handled the rumor that she had male parts under her meat dress.

Remember that, too?

Well, she could have easily smacked that rumor down when Anderson Cooper pressed her on it back in 2011. But she didn’t. 

She refused to validate it with either an admission or a denial.

Years later, when asked in an interview with Bill Gates about why she wouldn’t dispel the myth, she said:

“…Because I didn’t feel like a victim with that lie, and I thought, ‘What about a kid who is being accused of that who would think that a public figure like me would feel shame?’”

And this is why Venus in Aries is not the self-centered stereotype that it sometimes gets stuck with.

Yes, Venus in Aries can be egocentric. But also heroic.

Venus the Nurturer and Aries the Warrior unite to defend the children.

Whether their children or humanity’s children. 

Blonde bombshell Marilyn Monroe also had her Venus in Aries.

She was not well-known enough for the contributions of her time and money that she made to children’s charities and humanitarian causes.

After her death, 25% of her estate went to the Anna Freud Center of London, England to aid children struggling with mental health issues.

People don’t really know that about Marilyn Monroe. But that’s a Venus in Aries woman.

She isn’t looking for recognition.

She isn’t asking for the world’s understanding.

She’s simply acting on instinct, the instinct to protect. 

And if the world could see past her armor, they’ll see a kind, generous person who is not merely interested in waging war, but making the world more fair for everyone.

Venus in Aries Woman Personality Traits

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A Venus in Aries woman is in direct communication with her desires.

She knows what she wants and who she wants, instantly.

She also knows who and what she doesn’t want, instantly.

She’s impulsive.

There are zero intellectual thought processes in between feeling desire and acting on it.

Her desire burns her. Rages within.

An independent spirit, a Venus in Aries woman doesn’t follow convention or anyone else’s rules that she doesn’t respect.

She is her own woman and she respects others who respect themselves.

I mentioned before the self-centered stereotype that comes with the Aries influence, and this comes from the Aries Venus’s interest in its own fulfillment.

A Venus in Aries woman feels no compulsion to give if she’s not getting—at least when it comes to interpersonal relationships.

She’s about equality.

If you don’t give her kindness and respect, you get none—she believes in instant karma.

She is passionate and fierce.

Aries Venus is drawn not to what makes her feel good, but what makes her feel an adrenaline rush.

She doesn’t want to wait for anything, and she doesn’t care about the consequences.

Impulsiveness has its rewards sometimes, but that’s not something she’s interested in dissecting.

A Venus in Aries woman is a creature of instinct.

She follows desire, not reason. But she will also never let her desires make her subservient or subordinate to someone else.

This gives her some control over desire. And she certainly doesn’t take anyone’s charity.

Because a Venus in Aries woman decides her own fate.

She’s no one’s plaything. Not even the universe’s.

Aries Venus Woman in Love

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Intense and uninhibited, a Venus in Aries woman loves hard and falls fast.

She speeds like a bullet train towards love when she gets those butterflies in her stomach and tingles in her skin.

Come date number two, she might be asking you to tell her what you want and where things are headed because she’s already made up her mind.

Intimidated?

Don’t be—not unless you’re afraid to fall in love.

That’s the last thing Aries Venus is afraid of.

She loves roller coaster rides.

That feeling of losing her stomach, sailing like a cannonball through the sky.

Love should be thrilling, says the Venus in Aries woman.

If you want to love her, don’t try to put out her fire.

Don’t try to tame her.

And never breadcrumb her with drips of your love and affection. Turn the faucet all the way on.

Give her passion. Give her nonstop thrills.

Grab her and kiss her in the middle of the movie.

Leave roses on her bed.

A Venus in Aries woman needs tangible demonstrations of your affection. 

Actions that scream to all the gods and goddesses that this is the woman you love.

That you claim this woman as yours.

If you’re not Bonnie and Clyde together, she doesn’t want it.

In Relationships

If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a Venus in Aries woman, you’ll probably recall that it was she who asked you out.

Or maybe she was the one who declared you two as an item.

She said you were hers and that was that.

That’s how getting with a Venus in Aries woman goes.

In a relationship, the Venus in Aries woman needs a strong partner who can hold their own in all areas—in conversation, in bed, in an argument.

She can be moody but her moods also dissipate quickly.

Ideally, her partner won’t take her moods or quickness to anger personally.

They should also be ready to give her plenty of room to do her thing independently as Venus in Aries needs time and space to feverishly pursue her hobbies and interests.

If you’re with a Venus in Aries woman, realize that she’s never going to run her decisions past you first.

Or if she does, it’s only to communicate to you what she’s already decided.

She understands what she needs and is not very willing to go without.

This can definitely cause friction, but this is also why she requires a strong partner.

Not a partner who simply digs their heels in and resists with equal fervor.

No, a strong partner for her is one who communicates their feelings openly and directly from their heart.

This is all a Venus in Aries woman really needs.

You’d be surprised at how well she can accommodate you with a little bit of vulnerability and flexibility.

She will protect you, love you and do everything in her power to give you all the happiness in the world.

What she asks in return is your fidelity and your honesty.

And hot, mind-blowing sex.

In Bed

The saucy Venus in Aries woman is an animal in bed.

There’s no such thing as taboo with her. No such thing as the limit.

Her lust is insatiable. 

She loves spontaneous and fun sex.

Sex with imagination.

Don’t come to her with the same old routine because that’s going to make her fire go out fast.

A Venus in Aries woman is very physical in bed.

Drink your coffee and eat a good meal before you roll in the hay with her, because you’re going to need your energy.

Venus in Aries likes teasing, but not too much.

Be ready to deliver, because there’s only so much teasing she can take.

What Is an Aries Venus Woman Attracted To?

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A Venus in Aries woman is attracted to an individual who is both laid-back and passionate.

She gets turned off if you’re too pushy, but she also can’t get into it if you’re lukewarm.

You have to be forward to attract a Venus in Aries woman, but also confident enough to let the magic of your chemistry do some work for you.

The typical Aries Venus woman’s “type” is the broad-shouldered manly man or the hyper masculine individual.

But that’s just on the surface.

Deep down, she wants a lover.

A sincere and emotionally honest person who doesn’t give her the runaround.

But emotionally honest doesn’t mean needy and codependent. That is sure to make the attraction fizzle out.

You need to light her fire.

Allow her to experience the physical anticipation of your passion, and give glimpses of your sincerity by the constancy of your affection, openness and directness.

And be fun.

Don’t bore her with dreadful, dull dates.

Take her for a hot air balloon ride, or better yet, something more physically active like snorkeling. 

Heck, you could even invite her to play tennis.

Raise the stakes by stating that the loser has to do anything the winner says for ten whole minutes.

A Venus in Aries woman loves a challenge and can even be a graceful loser if you make it interesting for her.

Flirting

If you decide to flirt with a Venus in Aries woman, you’d better be ready because you’re playing with fire.

Being the subject of a Venus in Aries woman’s attention is intense. Explicit.

If you’re reading this and you’re a Venus in Aries woman, you know there’s nothing mild about your flirting game.

You don’t flirt without intent.

For you, flirtations are a promise of sexy shenanigans to come.

You’re not interested in getting attention for attention’s sake.

If you’re not hot on someone, they’re in the rearview already.

They’re not hot on you?

You’ve already moved on.

Aries Venus women don’t mess around. They’re 100% in or 100% out.

If a Venus in Aries woman is interested in you, you’re going to know it.

She’s going to be making x-rated comments that you’ve only ever heard in your wildest dreams.

She’ll be looking you in the eyes while saying these things.

There’s a bit of a cavewoman thing about how Venus in Aries women express interest in you.

What a Venus in Aries woman would call flirting, others would call hunting.

She sees you, she likes you, she moves in for the kill.

It’s primal.

Venus in Aries Woman Style

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You know an Aries Venus woman when you see her because she takes risks with her wardrobe.

She likes it when people gasp as she walks by.

Venus in Aries wears red. And she looks good in it.

She doesn’t dress for others, but for herself.

She doesn’t care who likes what she’s wearing and who doesn’t.

Her style is whatever she wakes up and wants it to be.

Often, Venus in Aries women are style icons because they’re so original.

Or because they simply don’t care to conform to anyone else’s fashion standards.

Rihanna and Sarah Jessica Parker are two examples of ladies who lead in fashion, and both have Venus in Aries.

Sarah Jessica Parker got married (in a surprise wedding—how Aries Venus of her) in a black wedding dress back in 1997, way before black wedding dresses were a thing.

And Rihanna has single-handedly changed the face of maternity wear, making it cool and actually stylish.

Aries-inspired Venusian style goes against the grain, but it isn’t anti-stylish in any way.

On the contrary, Aries Venus women define fashion and style.

They make fashion their b!$#%.

And we’re here for it.

Venus in Aries Woman Compatibility

Generally speaking, Venus in Aries women are most compatible with other fire Venuses—Sagittarius Venus and Leo Venus.

They also find themselves deeply attracted to air Venuses: Gemini, Aquarius and Libra Venus.

What about the rest, you say?

Let’s do a quick run-through of a Venus in Aries woman’s compatibility with all of the Venus signs.

Here’s how she matches up with…

Venus in Aries

Two Venus in Aries people are going to have an earnest, passionate and fast-moving relationship.

They fight hard, but they also love hard.

If the relationship makes it past the first few high-octane fights, it will feel like the best thing that ever happened to them both…and sometimes the worst thing.

Venus in Taurus

Taurus Venuses are intriguing to Aries Venus women because they’re so reserved.

Venus Aries may think shes met the tall, dark and handsome figure of her dreams.

But she’ll get too impatient when she’s ready to explore the depths of their souls together and the wary Taurus Venus is still in get-to-know-each-other mode.

On the other hand, they can really balance each other out with the Taurus Venus holding the Aries Venus’s heart down and the Aries Venus providing new and provocative sensations.

Venus in Gemini

A Venus in Gemini knows how to keep a Venus in Aries woman’s flame alive.

He’s a charmer and a flirt and brings out the hunter in her.

He just better not play too many games with her or she’ll lose interest.

Venus in Cancer

There’s something sweet and innocent in the Cancer Venus that captivates the Aries Venus woman.

At first.

While Venus in Cancer might be sincere, they’re also very emotionally demanding in a way that scares Aries Venus off.

They might hit it off and feel the chemistry in the beginning, only to wonder how they were even attracted to each other after the first date.

Venus in Leo

This relationship hits all the right notes for the Venus in Aries woman.

Only a Venus in Leo really knows how to make her feel adored the way she properly needs.

When they butt heads, though, neither one will want to give in.

Venus in Virgo

If a Venus in Aries woman falls for a Venus in Virgo, she’s going to have her work cut out for her to maintain the relationship.

She may find the Virgo Venus heavily critical and unromantic while the Virgo Venus finds her too reckless and insensitive.

Their saving grace is their mutual optimism in their relationship, the Virgo Venus being very dedicated to their chosen partner and the Aries Venus having a firm belief of love conquering all.

Venus in Libra

Libra and Aries are opposite signs, and that will be felt in this relationship.

There’s natural tension between them that can be both a source of strong attraction and emotional pain.

Venus in Libra easily becomes dependent on Aries Venus’s attention, which bugs the Aries Venus.

This may be a short-term only relationship.

Venus in Scorpio

Scorpio is ruled by Mars, just like Aries.

So you best believe that this couple is going to be fiery.

They’re both feisty and aggressive in bed and this works well for them.

However, they can fall into a pattern of fighting for control and dominance in the relationship.

This couple will need to let go of the constant power play and just lean into it for fun, sexy times if they want to make it last.

Venus in Sagittarius

Another fire sign, Sagittarius is perfect for a Venus in Aries female.

Sagittarius understands and embraces the Aries Venus woman’s need for freedom.

This duo will have a blast together, although they’ll need something to anchor their relationship.

Both of these signs are uninterested in the details and prefer to just crash right into love, which can mean there’s not a lot to support for the relationship long-term.

Venus in Capricorn

Similarly to Venus in Scorpio, Venus in Capricorn is a quiet powerhouse.

And this very much attracts the Venus in Aries woman.

The determined Capricorn Venus will be the mastermind of this romance, planning the perfect dates to win over the Venus in Aries woman.

But once in a relationship, earthy Capricorn may become a snoozefest for the Aries Venus with their focus on the practical.

Venus in Aquarius

Aquarius Venus is just crazy enough to earn the Aries Venus woman’s affection.

She loves how unconventional the Venus in Aquarius is.

At the same time, that Aquarian energy can be accidentally aloof.

This can be fun in the beginning but become a source of annoyance later.

But it’s not necessarily a vibe killer and overall, they bounce their different energies off of each other quite well.

Venus in Pisces

The water Pisces Venus has a poet’s soul, which speaks to the Aries Venus’s heart directly.

And yet, the Pisces Venus is somehow unreachable, wrapped in a fantasy within a dream.

This couple may play cat and mouse with each other a lot, but not on purpose.

If they catch each other, they must hold on tight and try to see each other for who they are and not what they want each other to be.

Frequently Asked Questions

What does a Venus in Aries woman look like?

A Venus in Aries woman has a smoldering look.

A look that says she will eat you alive if you’re not careful.

Many ladies of this Venus influence have almond-shaped eyes, like a cat.

Aries is the baby of the zodiac and so imparts a certain youthfulness to a Venus in Aries woman’s look, often in the way that she styles herself.

Venus in Aries women always look confident, because they are.

What is the love language of Aries Venus?

Physical touch is a big love language for Aries Venus because Aries is such a physical sign.

Aries interfaces with the world through their body.

Thus, connection through the body is a way to connect emotionally and romantically with Aries Venus.

But don’t forget quality time, because that’s another love language that Aries Venus knows well.

What are the turn offs of Venus in Aries?

Venus in Aries turn-offs are:

  • Prudishness
  • Slavishness about routines
  • Passionlessness
  • Having no hobbies 
  • Lacking opinions or the gumption to state one’s opinions
  • Clinginess
  • Fake niceness
  • Suck-ups
  • Indecision
  • Lack of a challenge
  • Laziness
  • Insecurity
  • Mean-spiritedness

Do Venus in Aries like to be chased?

A Venus in Aries is usually the one to do the chasing, but it’s more nuanced than that.

If you’re a Venus in Aries woman, you definitely want to be chased back.

But you can’t have someone needing your attention constantly or you get overwhelmed.

There has to be a give and take.

If the person you’re interested in is leaving nothing to your imagination, you’re going to get bored.

They do need to make it fun for you, as long as they’re not holding back.

Because nothing kills your fire like someone trying to hold things over your head and make you feel like you’re too much.

How to dress as an Aries Venus woman?

The key to dressing like your Aries Venus sign is to follow the beat of your own drum.

Venus in Aries women all have their own unique styles because they allow themselves to give in to their desires.

But if you’re looking for inspiration, try to unleash your inner rebel.

Listen to the voice within that challenges the trends and set your own trends instead.

Experiment with whatever makes you feel good. Bold. Powerful.

That’s where you’ll find your style.

Are Venus in Aries possessive?

While Venus in Aries wants to claim that they do “possess” you, it’s all for the fun and romance of it.

They aren’t really possessive because they value freedom and individualism too much.

They just want to know that you’re fully committed to them and that’s enough for them.

Do Aries Venus move on fast?

Yes, Aries Venus does indeed move on fast.

When a relationship has ended, they see no need to rehash old memories.

They’re not heartless, though.

Just because a Venus in Aries person moves on quickly doesn’t mean that your relationship wasn’t profound.

It simply means that they understand that it’s over now, and they’re going to take the necessary steps to heal.

Aries energy never stops moving, so they never get stuck on a relationship.

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